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Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.

I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.

I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)

Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:

I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]

Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.

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i am not sure this category fits, but its the best i could choose..sorry

okay..so im a 15/f...almost 16 in october..

i have always lacked self-confidence, and i think i am really ugly and fat..but everyone always tells me im hott, but i honestly dont get it. when i look in the mirror i hate what i see..
i dont know if me being REALLY fat last year has anything to do with it. i lost over 40 pounds, but i still feel fat, even though i am in the healthy weight range, and i also have double d's, if that has any effect.

so i was wondering what i could do to make myself feel better? should i lose more weight? or what? any advice helps, and please be honest! thanks!


here is my myspace, if you wanted to see a picture of me..
myspace.com/THISisWHYimHOTTdoubleD


I don't get the point of this question honestly. From the picture, all I can see is your face. It doesn't look as though you have multiple chins, so losing weight might not be THAT important but I'd need a full body picture to actually answer that.

You say you're "queen of the double d's" so obviously you must have SOME confidence in yourself because most girls don't brag about boob size on myspace unless they are conceited.

Anyways.. If you're in the healthy weight-range YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY. Most people can't even lose 20 pounds, so you should be happy about your goal. It wasn't easy losing all that weight so feel proud that you accomplished something that difficult. Don't ask people if you're pretty because usually people will be nice and say yes.

I'd say, forget about the whole weight loss thing because if you already lost 40 pounds, it seems like your doing pretty good. You can still exercise every day and eat well, but don't obsess over it. Make sure you don't slack off though because you'll gain it all back. Okay, I'm going off track. I wanted to say that if you wanna make yourself feel better you have to gain self confidence. Instead of noticing the BAD stuff about you, think about everything good. Your hair is gorgeous and your eyes are pretty. Maybe even write down everything you're good at, and what's good about your appearance. Try different make up, get another piercing, dye your hair, get your nails done... just try something new to make you feel good about yourself. I used to think "ugh I'm an ugly freak" but then I dyed my hair, tried new make up techniques, and got acrylic nails and I feel good about myself. It's okay to pamper yourself!

Just be happy with what you have because I don't judge girls, but I'm saying.. you're NOT ugly. Some people are huge, or have big noses or small ears, so feel good you're not them. When you go out with your friends, take a look around at other people and notice that some aren't as lucky as you. I know you're thinking "shut up you corny bitch" but it's true.

So to sum it up, to make you feel good try something new to make you look different (I listed some things above) and realize that some people only have 1 leg so you have it good. Also, about your weight.. you look fine to me but I can't see you but even if you're 80 pounds, if you don't keep up on exercising EVERY day and eating things like fruits and salads, you'll gain everything back. Don't obsess over it, but don't be too leaned back either.

-Candace

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(Rating: 5) thanks..this all really helped!
maybe i do need to pamper myself..
thanks again!=)
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