holahayley56's advice column

"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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SO, last year i dated this guy I really liked named kyle. at first eevrything was great. i became friends with his friends and i thought we were totally in love. he said he loved me soo much and that I was his angel. we met at a camp, and the next week at the camp was amazing. we accualy snuck out and watched the sunset together. so everything was perfect. but then one day he told me just for today he wanted to hang out with the guys. so that day i went with the girls. we were going to go horsebackridding but it got caneled so we decided to go down to the lake, but as we were going up the big hill I saw kyle on the bench making out with another girl. I got closer and started to cry right away me screaming "how could you" i started screaminng at him. while he said lanie, it is NOT what it looks like, I just ran away, but he chased after me, i ran to the girls cabin the boys werent allowed. my friends came with. he stode outside for a while, then left, as I was crying for hours with my friends. at times he would try to talk to me after that, but I just walked away. so a year later, he called me out of the blue, and asked me whats up. When i asked why he was callin me he just said "I dont know. i missed you." he also said he didnt have another girlfriend after me, and I was the only one he wants. and that hes TRULY sorry. I called his friends and they said that was true but i asked my girlfriends, and they said he was with a girl just the other night. idk. i found out he drinks alot now too. but honestly after the brake-up, i hurt soo much but never got over him. i dont know if I should give him another chance. should I? i just dont know anymore.

Once a player, always a player.
Move on, if he drinks alot, then it will be hard for you to trust him. Tell him that you just can't trust him after that, and he really hurt you. if he sounds really really really really sincere,then try it out again, if you want.

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