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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
advice
I'm 16/F.
I don't like who I am
I don't like how outspoken I am about everything
I want to be the quiet kid no one knows about
I fight with my parents a lot because I disagree on many of their thoughts and actions
It gets me in trouble and I hate it because my uncle is always yelling at me
I don't fit in anywhere really
I don't have a special talent, or anything I can do.
I want to change.
I want to be quiet, and shy. I don't want to talk to anyone a lot, I don't want to give people my opinions. I don't want to trust anyone anymore, it's screwed me over big time. I don't want to laugh at pointless things and I don't want to be the loud obnoxious girl I am. I want to lose weight, I want to look pretty (I don't wear a lot of make up, just eyeliner.) I'm going to get some crazy hair cut or something that symbolizes who I am. I admit it, I listen to emo music and some death metal/hardcore whatever you want to call it. I don't want to be with my family, or have anything to do with my family. I just want to be the quiet kid that does everything for them and doesn't get noticed for it.
If anyone has any ideas on how I can change, mentally/physically or emotionaly I would appriciate it a great deal. Making like losing weight tips or new hair styles (emoish I guess)
Don't listen to the person below me. Even though, I see what there saying. Now, why do you want to be all one thing so badly? Why do you want to label yourself, as an 'emo' Why not just be you? When giving your opinions on things, just do it nicely. Just say like, "well I think ..... but thats just my opinon" Be whoever YOU want to be. If you truly wanna be so quiet and just kept to yourself, then that is tottaly fine. and psh who says your obnoxious? if you dont believe your obnoxious, then your not. your you, and if anyone has a problem with it, then they are just being an idiot. don't listen to anyone but yourself. all that matters, is what you think. dont let a haircut or anything, 'symbolize you' as just one thing. you are not an emo kid. that is not your name. you are who you are. your family loves you, no matter what they say, in there hearts, they love you. don't change who you are. just be you.
As for the losing weight thing, there is nothing wrong with losing a few pounds, to be more healthy. [but if you are already skinny, please dont starve yourself.. check your BMI to find out.] you just type in BMI calculater, and it will come up (: If you wanna lose weight, just cut out the junk food, drink water, take walks daily.
be the best you can be.
(Rating: 5) Thank you, my BMI is 17 (under weight) but I feel unhealthy, I'm not trying to define myself as a stereotyped emo (cutting/whining about how bad my life really isn't) because I've been shoved down to hell and pulled out with a sythe through my neck back and survived it all, I just want something that will define me, for who I am an outspoken funny smart hardworking strong young lady