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I'm 16/f, my best friend is 16/m. Usually we hang out 3-4 times a week, and if not he calls pretty often. It's been 11 days since he's called once or even hung out. Finally he shocked me by coming to my door today, because I didn't answer any of the phones when he called today because I've felt hurt. I asked him why the hell he hasn't talked/hung out with me and so long and he said "he's been busy". Yeah, he's been busy hanging with the same person for 11 days, I know for a fact. I asked the other guy he hung out with, and that's all he's been doing. Hanging out with his other friend. That's fine, but I mean he's too BUSY to take maybe 1 minute out of an 11 day period to fucking call? Can anyone tell me what kind of message he's trying to send me here? Is he trying to say he doesn't want to see me as often or what? I'm just trying to understand this. Thank you. (link)
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Hey whoa..cool it. He feels sorry for not calling you and it's really nice of him to show up at your door. So for one, I'm very sure he doesn't wanna give up on this friendship. Cos why in the world would he even bother looking you up if he doesn't give two shoots bout you?
Maybe he has he's own reasons for not contacting you? You should ask him exactly what you wrote in your qn. Ask him why can't he even take out a min or two to call you. You have the right to ask him that.
I, for one, can't tell what kind of message he's trying to send here. But I'm very sure that he still wants to keep the friendship.
If he doesn't wanna tell you, then let him be, the more you push him, the more he's gonna snap. I'm very sure each and everyone always have their own reasons for doing something, esp if he's your friend. You should trust him and trust yourself more. Why in the world would he do things to harm the friendship between the two of you? I don't see any need for him to do that.
Go talk to him. That is the best advice I can give you.
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Thank you SO much, that was the best advice I've ever been given. Seriously, thank you, it helped a lot.
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