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i don't know..
like we really weren't close at all before...
i've liked him for about 2 or 3 months..
and now we're kinda talking to each other..
not that much though..
and i want to get closer to him..
from what i've seen and heard...he doesn't seem like a really social person..
but how can i get together with him after school or something? like maybe a group thing..
idk..
please help.
i just want to get closer to him and maybe somehow organize a group thing and meet up with him.
i know this seems really stupid..
im just not good with these things..
thanks in advance!

Why if he is shy and not that social--- he might not ever ask or suggest y'll to get together-- so it's up to you.

Ask him to hang out and get a coke or something- sit in a park and talk and feed the birds, whatever, a mutual area that makes him feel at ease.


Go for it-- make the first move.

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