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I text my best friend (Jane)for two hours last night about nothing. okay she was over at a friends place and she was bord. so i entertained her, i like to keep her company and make her life. and i felt happy that she weather go over my place. (she just couldnt that night cause i work the next day) next week she came by my place and i ask her what she did over her so called friends place(sandy), she said "nothing but watch tv." and that moaring Sandy said "sorry that I made you bord" but i ask Jane if she going to go over there again when Sandy invents her. Jane said "yeah cause i dont want to be a mean friend" but i said "she was rude to your company" but i cant could her life. just wondering what u all think?

Just sounds like they are friends and you are Jane's friend and she was bored but didn't want to leave.

Yet, maybe there was something going on that neither wants you to know about too. Who knows? There are many possibilities and then there is the simplest answer and you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.

If Jane was so bored over at Sandy's house, she is under no obligation to go back over there for any reason. Why would she want to?

Ask Jane that question? No one is so "nice" that they would subject themselves to boredom and an uncomfortable time to be "nice."


Just talk to her about the evening.

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(Rating: 3) your answer was alittle hard to fellow. i was friends with sandy but we always fought cause we always disagree on things. it was late at night when we text each other, i dont care that they hang out, i just dont like it that sandy ignor Jane all night it was rude. but Jane can do anything she wants i dont mind.


what do you mean? (you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.)
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