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so i have a boyfriend. of 3 months. i love him. and we have said i love you for about 2 months before we started dating. and he ALWAYS wants me to change, and stop talking to my best friend brandon. and he got REALLY pissed off cause when i went away for spring break i hung out with his friend rick, but nothing happened between us. i gave him a hug good bye and thats it. but we never told my boyfriend about it. and found out and now he thinks im fucking around. and he says were on break. and hes like we can still kiss and hold hands durring school. and im like whats break?

what are the standards for a break?
what are the standards when your my age for break?
advice please?

Generally a "break" is meaning that he and you can see different people. It is just like a break-up except generally when you break-up you guys don't talk ever again and there isn't that possibility of getting back together. Now some guys have a break so they can be with other girls but still string you along and have you there if they decide they still want you. Trust me, a "break" is no fun. He has two choices. Be with you and trust you, or you guys officially "break-up". He can't border between the two. That is exactly what he is doing and it is not fair to you. So make him choose one or the other. Do you really want to get stuck being his "sort of" girlfriend while you watch him flirt all over other girls?

~Sherah

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