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13/f im starting to really hate life.im not going to a physicatrist.im more baggy clothes and gothic wears black and i LOVE jewelry. my only friend(a guy)is more of a unique person he can go all stlyes. i also have other ?friends? i guess they ignor me at school but out of school they act like my best friend ever it drives me fuckin crazy i hate it! every1 is in a group or clique but me. it drives me crazy. i have my own style. id rather be with my bff thats a guy but he goes to 2 schools! so hes only here half the time and when he is here hes usually w/ me or doin tests and work he missed. im alone in a school death trap. i am myself i dont change for anyone and i have my own style.but im not happy at all i dont have friends tht would always go w/ me most ignore me when their w/ their group but they still call me their 'friend'.my only true friend is my bff thats a guy.ppl think of me as a freak. yea so i never cared but now i do. now we like eachother as bf gf but people who date end up hating eachother. hes all i have. also say o the two freaks dating. i never cared befor but now i do! ive been friends with everyone in my grade and other grades people just end up hateing me! so im just waiting for high school to possibly get another friend but the problem is my bff is going to a different school and hour away. what should i do for all of it!!!

Hm, sounds like a crazy situation. Welcome to your teenage years.
You say you have other friends but they ignore you unless you're outside of school. Eh. I wouldn't really consider those people your friends. Friends would stick with you no matter whos around, whats around, etc. If you really care that much about them, then talk to them. Personally if I was in your case, this may sound mean but I would ditch them.
You'll be starting high school soon. High School if full of many different cliques and its more diverse than middle school. Everyone doesn't try so hard to be "cool" or fit in. You slowly figure out a sense of who you are. Everyone is different so it makes it a little more diverse. Freshman year is a little crazy [but thats a whole different story, ha]. I'm sure once you roll in there, you'll have new people you've never met before in your classes and some will have more in common with you.

As for this boy aka your best friend. If you both like eachother and want to give it a shot as more than friends then I'd say Hey, Go for it. If it doesn't work out, try to remain friends. You guys will only "hate eachother" if thats what you want. And if you guys want to still get along and remain friends, then I'm sure you can manage that as well. Its all what you make it.

I don't know if I was much help, but I figured I'd try.
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(Rating: 5) thanks ill dump them but they wont leave me alone their always callin back anyway.
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