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hi clara!
im still in school and i need to use the bathroom a lot. my mom took me to a doc and she said i have a small bladder. it upsets me a lot so i wear pads when im going out with friends so i dont have to run to the bathroom all the time or embarass myself. but im still experimenting with pads and don\'t know how they all work. i saw you said to someone you have the same prob so i want to know what brand of pads you use and work best because im having trouble finding one. please help me :(
kel (link)
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Hi Kel, if you were to read my answer carefully, I have the problem of peeing when I laugh, but I don't have the problem of a small bladder. So if you read my answer to that question carefully, I didnt recommend the use of pads for such occassions because it'd be very heavy with pee at the end of the day.
Pads don't solve my problem. I solve my problem psychologically and not physically. I dun think peeing into your pad is a good idea because
1)It's unhygenic
2)Pads are meant for collecting something which is more viscous and thick. Pee is just too wet and fluid to be contained by a pad.
Did your doctor prescribe you with any medication for your problem? It's alright if you use the bathroom a lot. It's alright to run to the bathroom a lot cos sometimes I do that too. My frens laugh and make fun of me bcos they're amused by the fact that I'm normal and yet I can pee so often within a day. In fact, I pee so often because I dun like the feeling of feeling urgent or controlling my pee. I can make myself pee. I can actually choose to pee or not to pee. I know, wierd.
But anyway, as for your case, your friends, (being your friends) will not be amused by you and in fact, they will be more understanding towards your problem. It's nothing embarrassing. When you told me that you're embarrassed by this problem, it just struck me as really lame. I dun mind having a fren who pees often, bcos I accept them for the way they are. And that's what your friends will do for you. If your friends find this behaviour of yours embarrasing then i guess you know what to do.
Let me tell you something, pads don't work at all in containing your urine. If you had a friend who had the same problem as you, you would be accomodating towards her, won't you?
Ok if you really wanna know what brand I use, I use laurier or kotex. I'm not particulary picky bout the brand. But I go for overnight, long pads with wings so that I would'nt stain my pants. But let me make it clear that I do not use pads to solve my problem.
Girl, don't be bothered bout this problem, it's really not something that should stress you out socially.
I know I didnt answer your qn, but I really hope I've helped you. Do message me if you need more help. I'll be here for you.
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Yes sure of cos you can message me here.
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thank you so much for your answer clara. i have more things to ask about my problem so can we private message here?
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