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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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alright sorry this is so long, i'll try to make it quick
so there's this guy i've liked for a while. he's a juinor and im a freshman. to top that he's got a child. anyway, i've been talking to him via text mess. then we both started doing the musical together. we talked quite a bit then too. well musical is now over and we still talk, more like flirt. badly, like he'll say something about me, like call me hotty or something like that, so i'll do it back, and we go back and fourth. but sometimes we do have deep convo's. well once he told me he likes this girl. we'll call the girl Amara. well Amara sits next to me in math, and we talk all the time. seriously were good friends. But it really surprised me, when he said he liked her, i didn't care. seriously fine go ahead, like her i could care less. well Amara told me she likes him, they text also. Her parents won't let her date him. but the boy went to florida for spring break. and before he left he told me that they kissed three times on the lips after school. WHY WOULD YOU TELL ME THAT? anyway i was kinda hurt after that. i havn't texted him because he's still in Florida, but i have a feeling when he get's back ill get a text. what do i do? im upset, hurt, sad, but i don't want him to know that. what do i do? or do you have any good rejection habbits? you know like chocolate and a chick flick? lol please some advice would be nice. thanks

Hmm. I think you should tell him how you feel. Let him know that it makes you upset when he talks to you aboutg the girl. Tell him he needs to realize the signals he's giving someone. Because it seems to me like this guy is just dangling you on a fishhook. So, your not upset with that they like each other, but you dont like it that he flirts and stuff with you but doesnt like you, is what I understand from this I think. When he gets back from FLorida, just let him know either he likes you, or he doesnt, and if he doesnt then stop messing around with your feelings. Hope I helped! Happy Spring.

-Brina

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(Rating: 5) thanks! happy spring to you too
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