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Hey, I'm Mara. I love dancing. It's practically my favourite thing to do. I love House, R&B, pretty much everything with a good beat, and Benny Benassi is my hero; that's why my column is a shrine to him. I graduated this year and am now in my first year of college where I'm trying to pick a major. Chances are you'll see some of my Psychology questions floating around somewhere here. I'm also extremely interested in Political Science too because I, like half the people living in Canada, somehow want to change the world. I particularly want to find a cure for poverty, corruption, cancer, AIDS and George Bush because honestly, I think those are the biggest problems we have right now. I have decided that maybe I should take the time to live a little before I start though because I have a good fifty years ahead of me to fix all the issues there are. Currently my life consists of: studying, working, socializing, eating and ocassionaly sleeping. I spent practically all of my high school life being a delinquent and partying to huge extents until I discovered my brain sometime in the middle of my senior year. I still like to have a good time every once in a while but you always need to find that balance (I haven't exactly found it yet but I'm getting close). Unfortunatley, a habit that has stuck with me from school is my obsessive gossiping. I just can't stop and you know, an article in Cosmo says that gossipers are healthier people because they bond over it? Who would have thought? Anyway, I do have my limitations and I don't condone nasty, brutal gossiping and I don't gossip about anything my friends have told me in confidence or something about someone else that they have slipped to me, however, if I find you in a washroom at a random party making out with my bestfriends's boyfriend, a few people are probably going to hear about it. Actually, more than a few people will hear about it because one of my absolute pet peeves is parties where the all the bathrooms are occupied due to sexual activity or... puking activity. Sooooo what else is there to know about me? My favourite thing in the world is shopping and my worst fear is existantialism. I am OCDey in a clinical way so you can ask me questions about that. You can ask me practically anything you want except for dumb questions but I'm not going to answer them in my little column here because it's a huge waste of space when I could be writing about myself (Click 'LookIt' on my menubar for answers to dumb questions so you don't have to embarass yourself asking them and getting bitched out from me). What I can do, is offer you three pieces of truly inspirational advice. Firstly, never live your life by what others want of you, cherish yourself and everyone around you, and never beat yourself down about anything you couldn't have avoided. Secondly, donate at least ten percent of the income you earn in your life to someone who needs it. Lastly, never get into a bulldozer when you're under the influence and start driving it towards a poor freshmen (I am never going to another kegger ever again... ever). Ok, I'll shut up now. You can start asking me stuff, if you haven't hit the back button already.
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i met this guy about 6 months ago.
i told myself that i would not fall for him but a little over two months ago we had sex. He took my virginity and i ended up falling in love with him. i told him how i feel and he was fine with it i told him i was sorry and he said don't be. Well two weeks ago we got into this argument and he told me to get over him and to stop talking to him.
i am miserable, depressed and i feel like i have no reason to smile or be happy anymore. Ive lost alot of respect for myself. none of my friends understand me or they say they don't but when i ask them what should do they say talk to him. yes maybe i do need to talk and tell him how i feel right now but he will not listen to me.
i miss this guy.
ive cried myself to sleep the last three nights.
please give me advice as to what will make me feel better.
thank you
This guy is a jerk, hun.
You keep asking questions about him. Now you need to go back and read your own questions.
Is this the guy you really want to be with?
You gave him your virginity. He likes your friend. He says you're too clingy. He doesn't want you to talk anymore.
All he has wanted is sex from the start and that's just the type of guy he is. One day he's going to look back and realize how great you were and by then you will have moved on.
I feel bad for you, I really do. And I wish I could give you a shortcut or find some way to help you get over him quickly because you can't be with this guy. He's an asshole.
Your friends are wrong, talking to him when he doesn't want to talk to you just brings up a million other issues that are going to lead to nowhere. You need to close that chapter of your life. Give yourself a few more days to pull yourself together. Then take a deep breath and move on. You'll find someone new. It may take a few days or maybe even months but you can't wait and you can't pine. You just need to go out and have fun while you're still young.
Trust me, you're only feeling bad because you're making yourself feel bad. If you look into the mirror and tell yourself you don't need him with conviction, I promise you'll be out there in no time. Sure, you'll still be a little sore but seriously, that's what life is about.
You can do it :)
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you really confused me lol im guessing you can read my previous questions. yea they are about him and i tried to get over him before. thank you
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