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Ok so i like this boy and his name is Justice! i am madly in love with him but he has a girlfriend he is madly in love with. I wanna brake them up but he loves her almost as much as i love him (which is saying alot). he said if they ever brake up he'd go out with me. but recently he told me he thinks of me as a sis! i am so sad and don't know if they brake up if he would go out with me ! i don't want to ask him again cause he might get mad! What do I do?
(First off... the word "break" is not the same as "brake". So please revise your spelling so you don't look like a complete jackass.) Now to answer your question, it is completely wrong to try and break someone up for your own personal feelings. So you like the guy? He loves somebody else. He has someone else. If he broke up with her for you, how long do you think it would be until another girl would come along and he would break up with you for her. It is a vicious cycle you can't get out of. Karma will come back and bite you in the ass. Trust me it will. And that guy is lucky to find a girl he truly loves and won't cheat on. So take note of his true feelings and move on. If you truly care for him then be happy for him and his girlfriend and the love they share and find someone that is single like you. No one thinks highly of someone who is willing to break up a happy relationship just for themselves. That is called being selfish. So take yourself out of the equation and consider him. Leave him alone and let him be with who he loves. Unfortunately it isn't you, but you will find that guy someday. Just give it time. The fact this guy said you are like a sister is a clue in that he doesn't like you like that and he never will. Unless he is into incest. So move on hun. Things will get better.
~Sherah
PS:) Hun, I'm not on this site for ratings, so rate me a one. Do I care? No. I am not a jerk, I am just honest. Don't ask a question and expect to get the answers you are wanting to hear. Should you break the guy and his gf up? No. Why? Because it is selfish. I'm sorry I didn't tell you what you wanted to hear. But the truth hurts. So learn to take advice critically.
(Rating: 1) dont be a jerk like that