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well i recently told this guy "j" that i liked him.. before that he was one of my best guy friends. we could talk for hours on aim about anything. we had a ton in common. he'd always keep me entertained & hes funny.. well i miss that :[ ever since i told him that i liked him he never talks to me.. only when my friends yell at him because of it, then he'll talk to me. but its not the same anymore. ehh what do i do? i havent really told him myself that it makes me upset but its obvious & i know he knows it. also, he always stares at me in class.. do u think its only because he wants to see if im staring? or does he possibly like me? im almost positive he doesnt though. thankss

When you told him you liked him, it may have scared him a bit, yall are good friends and he may not want to mess that up, or could see you only as a good friend. Talk to him about it, but let him have his space for awhile. Don't tell your friends about the situation anymore cause it could make it worse causing him to be less responsive to you, especially if you're friends are yelling at him. When he stares at you in class he's probably thinking about you, wondering what would happen if you two would date, but he's probably also thinking that he doesn't wanna mess that up if yall do break-up. Talk to him about, see how he responds.Hope this helps.

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