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ok i have a realllly close friend, but the prob is that she lies a lot and i just dont like that. i dont want to like turn in to her by hanging out with her a lot you know?? but she lies to her parents a lot and friends too. i dont know why. please help... What should I D O !!!???? thanks you1

She's what you can call a compulsive liar. That means that, that person just lies because she is probably, more likely, just simply bored with herself and has to lie to make her life seem exciting. She has low-self esteem,& you only can get influenced to her is if YOU choose to. Just avoid her,don't surround yourself around those kinds of people, you need to hang around with people who can support you when you need help.
If she's like that, more than likely she won't be there for you. Try avoiding her, and if that don't work just simply try talking to her less, cut her off short,(it's kinda rude though) or best just keep by it, going in the halls and just saying hey, and that's it. Keep your convos short with her, you don't have to tell her much. You deserve a better friend than that. Hope this helps, sorry so long.

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(Rating: 5) man you hit the nail on the head!!! i agree totally!!! ok i will try not to be around her that much. it will be hard tho =\
but like i dont want to turn into her you know?! like i tell my parents everything but she keeps it a secret or lies. i just dont get it. i guess i am kinda loosing respect for her! = | Thank you so much for your help =)

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