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I'm a 21 year old female from Nova Scotia, Canada. I'm not as active on this site as I once was, but I will almost certainly reply to private questions sent to me.
Let's see, about me. I've been diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Fibromyalgia Syndrome, Clinical Depression, as well as some other related mental and physical illnesses. Despite this, I'm happier now than I can ever remember being.
I've been a vegan since August 2007. In other words, I do my best not to consume anything of animal origin, ranging from the obvious (meat), to the somewhat obvious (eggs and dairy), to the not-so-obvious (honey, wool, silk, and more). I love this life. I have so much more appreciation for everything and everyone around me, and I feel so at peace with myself and the world. I wake up everyday and know that I'm making a difference. It's been a huge turning point in my life.
I recently graduated from high school after an extra three years due to my illness. It was a long road, but it felt amazing to walk across that stage. An added bonus was having the 15th highest average (over my high school career) out of 258 students!
I intend to pursue a career in psychology, first obtaining my BA, and then attending graduate school in order to study for my PhD. It's a little daunting at times, but I know it will be worth it. I want to help people, plain and simple. I want to make a difference. I want to change the world. And I believe I can, if only in a small way.
I think that's me in a nutshell. I also enjoy writing, knitting, multiple other artistic endeavors (including drawing, photography, music, and more), web design, and many other things. So, feel free to drop me a message if you think there's something I can help with.
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Yesterday I talked to my dad about my depression and how it is affecting me. then he scheduled a appointment for me to see a psychiatrist which is tomorrow. When my mom found out she started to freak out and she told my dad that if i get help then the problem will be worse. then she told me that I was stupid to say anything. So now my parents are arguing and now I'm thinking that it was a mistake to ask for help. Was it okay that I asked for help and what will the psychiatrist do on the first day?
It's GREAT that you asked for help! That takes a lot of courage, and I'm proud of you for it. I'm glad that your dad took you seriously.
It's possible that your mom has heard bad things about psychiatrists or simply that she's stunned, or maybe wishes you'd gone to her instead. Whatever her problem is, it's HER problem, not yours. You're doing what's right for your health, and that's a big deal.
I have a psychiatrist, and I've had several in the past. They're great resources, if your personalities mesh. The intake appointment is generally just getting to know you and you getting to know the psychiatrist. You'll probably be asked a lot of questions about family history of mental illness, your feelings, your experiences with drugs, alcohol, eating habits, etc, and general life questions. Your psychiatrist will probably also explain confidentiality policies, and if not, you definitely have the right to ask!
If at the end of the session, you feel like you don't have a connection, you can choose to seek a different therapist.
He or she might prescribe something for you to try, or might not, depending on the situation.
But really, first appointments are a lot scarier in anticipation than they actually are! I get nervous still, but it always turns out to be much easier than I imagine it to be.
Good luck. And good for you. It takes guts.
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