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My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
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okay i like this guy A LOT! and im not like REAL popular but im not a total geek and he is a skater but is way more popular than me. anyway i talk to him and he talks to me but is there anyway i can get him to like me? like ill flirt with him and he'll i gues flirt back but i don't think he likes me
well thanks

Well, first off, I just want to get off my chest that you shouldn't classify people like you did-"popular", "geek", "skater", etc. Don't label people as if they were soup cans!

Anyways..

1. Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for disappointment (not to mention him!). Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives.
2. Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
3. Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
4. Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
5. Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
6. Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
7. Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
8. Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.

( http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Like-You )

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(Rating: 5) thanks a lot for the advice i will try i DO talk to him and we laugh im just not sure he likes me well anyway THANKS!
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