Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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i am way way way to jealous i dont trust my boyfriend at all and yes we have had some issues in the past but i need to get over them and just start to trust him .. if i even see a new girl on his myspace i question him and then if he leaves her a comment or a picture comment i get mad like how come he will leave her one but not me and i check his phone his email and i did check his myspace then he finally got sick of it and changed the password and wont give it to me which makes me furious that he would keep something from me because obviously he must be hiding something if he wants privacy .. please help me i dont know how to calm my jealousy (link)
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Hey. Well first of all I'm glad you realized that your jealousy is getting the best of you. All humans get it but you can't let it take over. You have to learn to cope with it and control it. Your boyfriend doesn't have anything to hide but he's probably just so sick of it and upset that you always go on his myspace. Think about if he was on yours all the time asking you everytime about why this guy said this or why you commented this guys picture and not his. You'd start to feel like he doesn't trust you and you'd feel bad right? This is probably how he feels. Really bad that you can't trust him and he's sick of it so he changed the password. I understand you're jealous but it's o.k. to have friends that are girls or for you to have friends that are guys. It's not the same way he feels about you and all the other girls know it =). They may be jealous that you're the one who actually gets to go out with him. Just try to cope with your jealousy and he will be more likely to feel as if you trust him which is what a relationship is based on. If you can't trust him than it won't work. Just try to be understanding of how he feels and realize that the love he feels for you is totally different than how he feels for his friends. I really hope this helped and good luck with the jealousy monster! =) (I know, that was really corney... lol).
Chrissabelle
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