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jealous
i am way way way to jealous i dont trust my boyfriend at all and yes we have had some issues in the past but i need to get over them and just start to trust him .. if i even see a new girl on his myspace i question him and then if he leaves her a comment or a picture comment i get mad like how come he will leave her one but not me and i check his phone his email and i did check his myspace then he finally got sick of it and changed the password and wont give it to me which makes me furious that he would keep something from me because obviously he must be hiding something if he wants privacy .. please help me i dont know how to calm my jealousy
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Hey. Well first of all I'm glad you realized that your jealousy is getting the best of you. All humans get it but you can't let it take over. You have to learn to cope with it and control it. Your boyfriend doesn't have anything to hide but he's probably just so sick of it and upset that you always go on his myspace. Think about if he was on yours all the time asking you everytime about why this guy said this or why you commented this guys picture and not his. You'd start to feel like he doesn't trust you and you'd feel bad right? This is probably how he feels. Really bad that you can't trust him and he's sick of it so he changed the password. I understand you're jealous but it's o.k. to have friends that are girls or for you to have friends that are guys. It's not the same way he feels about you and all the other girls know it =). They may be jealous that you're the one who actually gets to go out with him. Just try to cope with your jealousy and he will be more likely to feel as if you trust him which is what a relationship is based on. If you can't trust him than it won't work. Just try to be understanding of how he feels and realize that the love he feels for you is totally different than how he feels for his friends. I really hope this helped and good luck with the jealousy monster! =) (I know, that was really corney... lol).
Chrissabelle<3
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He is entitled to his privacy. How would you feel if he did the same to you? You have to trust him, or your relationship won't work out. You can't have a relationship without trust.
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You really need to work on that. Everyone has problems with their boyfriend, but to the fact where you check his phone, his email, & his myspace? You're letting your jealousy get the best of you, and it's a good thing you've realized it. Your boyfriend has nothing to hide, he just doesn't want you invading his privacy. I'm sure you'd be pretty pissed off if your boyfriend did this to you. Just tell yourself that he's with you, and not with those other girls. Besides, if he wanted to be with them, don't you think he'd have dumped you by now?
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