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I'm a 21 year old female from Nova Scotia, Canada. I'm not as active on this site as I once was, but I will almost certainly reply to private questions sent to me.

Let's see, about me. I've been diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Fibromyalgia Syndrome, Clinical Depression, as well as some other related mental and physical illnesses. Despite this, I'm happier now than I can ever remember being.

I've been a vegan since August 2007. In other words, I do my best not to consume anything of animal origin, ranging from the obvious (meat), to the somewhat obvious (eggs and dairy), to the not-so-obvious (honey, wool, silk, and more). I love this life. I have so much more appreciation for everything and everyone around me, and I feel so at peace with myself and the world. I wake up everyday and know that I'm making a difference. It's been a huge turning point in my life.

I recently graduated from high school after an extra three years due to my illness. It was a long road, but it felt amazing to walk across that stage. An added bonus was having the 15th highest average (over my high school career) out of 258 students!

I intend to pursue a career in psychology, first obtaining my BA, and then attending graduate school in order to study for my PhD. It's a little daunting at times, but I know it will be worth it. I want to help people, plain and simple. I want to make a difference. I want to change the world. And I believe I can, if only in a small way.

I think that's me in a nutshell. I also enjoy writing, knitting, multiple other artistic endeavors (including drawing, photography, music, and more), web design, and many other things. So, feel free to drop me a message if you think there's something I can help with.

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Okay Im 15/f and I weight about 192 pounds. Im about 5'6 r 7.I have lots of muscles I guess.
But I want to lose weight and quickly. Ever since I was 11 i was chubby. Its has just gotten worse in my opinion. I want to excercise but I have no motivation and I don't run becuase, Im afraid of what people might think seeing me run. What do I do I really need help and no one I know can help me!!

Guess what--no one's going to be looking at you.

Seriously. I get self-conscious too when I go walking (and I plan on starting to jog in the spring, if I'm healthy enough), but then I remind myself that the majority of the people I see are probably plagued with the same insecurities, or they're just too busy paying attention to the scenery.

Start with even just five minutes. You might hate it at first. I hated walking at first. But now I LOVE it. I love the way my body feels when it moves. I love the endorphins. I love being out in the fresh air. And that helps motivate me.

If you have an iPod or mp3 player and you live in a safe area, try taking that with you. You can play music, or do what I do, and play an audio book. You can get some classics free at http://librivox.org. They're all public domain, so no Harry Potter or anything like that, but it's a perfect chance to "read" something you might not otherwise, and it's good distraction if you want it.

Watch what you eat, but don't get obsessive. Vegetables and fruits are great, and they fill you up. Eat whole grains instead of processed foods. Stay away from junk food most of the time, and try and find substitutes (I just found Crispy Minis that taste almost exactly like Doritos, but they only have 60 calories for 8 of them).

Keep at it. Tell yourself that after five or ten minutes, if you still don't want to be exercising, you'll come home. Chances are, you'll stick to it.

Be healthy. Stay safe.

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