charmed3fanatic's advice column

I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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So everytime i like a guy, and they start to like me, i stop liking them like the second after, and i have no idea why, it makes me mad, and i feel horrible about the boy. I don't have commitment problems, and i know i'm actually a pretty good girlfriend, i just, don't know what to do. And its not because i'm immature or not ready, i've had serious ralationships before. Am i afraid of being hurt, ugh, i don't even know.

my best friend just sent me this question because i was EXACTLY like this since may of last year. i would like a guy and then when they would start to like me i would back off and stopp likeing them. i didn't know what was wrong either. but it's because you are afraid of getting hurt because you've been hurt times before and you don't want to go through the pain again. what you have to do is usually when your caught up in the moment your force yourself to say yes if they ask you out. the next day you will feel like a retart. but after that it will get better; and you'll be really happy and proud of yourself. but if you need anything else just let me know because i know what it feels like since i was the EXACT same way

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(Rating: 5) haha i know, but the problem with the guys in my school, they take frickin FOREVER to ask a girl on a date! so then it gives me more time not to like them, they realize that, and back off.

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