Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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This is gonna be long. Sorry. =[
Thanks in advance, though.
Mk, I have been BEST friends with this girl, Madison since I was eight. We're in eighth grade now and I seriously can't take her much longer. SHE GETS MAD OVER EVERY SINGLE THING! Anytime I get mad about something, she turns the whole thing around and starts cussing at me. She didn't do it this time but, she invited like eight girls over right in front of my face and didn't even invite me. Obviously, that pissed me off so I just hung out with my other friends the rest of the day cause every time I went over near her she'd start talking about Friday and what she's doing with everyone but me. Whenever I came home from school she IMed me and was like, "are you mad at me?" and then obviously she was talking about me cause some girl who I never even see at school was like, "are you mad at madison?" i just said sort of and then they were like, "oh, well it seemed like it." and then I told them why and Madison got all pissed off at me. She was saying, "I DON'T HAVE TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING WITH YOU! YOU INVITE YOURSELF OVER EVERY SINGLE DAY!" First of all, I know that. She doesn't have to invite people over in front of my face...I don't ever do that to her. Second of all, what the heck? NO I DON'T. She invites me over AND it isn't every day. It's like once a week. The only time I do is cause my dad is abusive and she the only one who I've told -- I only do that about once a month though. Then today I was talking to her about my profile on IM and she's like, "Well, you practically copied mine. I mean all the screen names are bolded and it's in black and white. So thanks?" I wanted to say, "OKAY! WHAT THE CRAP!? Every single person bolds the screen name like that or the name if they have conversations in their profile. Second of all, you copied Jordan's(This other girl who she acts like it's her best friend and then she tells me that she's a bitch. She's not a bitch. At least she doesn't get mad for no reason). Third of all, mine are ALWAYS black and white. I wasn't even trying to copy you. Why are you even making such a big deal about it!? It's a freaking profile." But instead I just said, "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to." and she didn't say anything. For about two weeks, anytime I say anything when she's around someone she just glares at me and says something rude or sarcastic back. I've become really good friends with some of the people who she says are her friends, so I don't know if she's just jealous about that or what. Gah, what should I do? If I talk to her about it, she'll freak out. (link)
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Hey. Wow, this sounds very similair to a situation I've been in. It sounds like you guys have just gotten waay to close. Now you're getting on each others nerves really badly no matter whose fault it is. When people get too close (they could be the nicest person ever or have some slight annoyances) this always happens.
You discover the slightest annoyances a person may have and they just keep building on and on until you feel as if you're gonna blow. Now don't think I'm blaming you or anything =) because Madison sounds like a real pain. She's definitely Not a best friend if she invited 8 whole girls over in front of you and not her own best friend. Especially the fact that she did it in front of you shows that she did it to purposely hurt you which is not a friend, especially a best friend. For people to come up and ask you if you're mad at her it sounds as if she's been telling them things about you that are untrue which is a horrible friend.
Also, with the copy cat thing she seems like she just wants to start trouble with you now. I would stay far away from her for a really long time so she will see how much she needs you and how mean she was. If you stay away without saying anything to her it will show that you're the mature one. It may be hard at first since you guys have been so close (or maybe not hard at all) but you said you have other friends so hang out with them in the meantime.
Invite them over. I'm sure they're a lot nicer and you will realize what a true best friend really is. Not someone who invites people over in front of your face to hurt you. Don't even talk about her just forget about her and if she starts trouble just be the mature one and people will realize who's really nice. She sounds like she likes to start trouble too. Maybe in time she'll realize what a great friend she lost because you sound like you've put up with a lot. I really hope this helped and good luck! I completely understand where you're coming from =)
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Ohh, yeah. About the first apart, that would make sense. Thanks! =]
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