Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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okay, well my mom and her boyfriend smoke. a lot.
i only visit on saturdays, but it drives me CRAZY because whenever i come home i smell like ciggerettes. and i dispise that smell. i don't like people who smoke that much either, because i have heart issues and i can't really breathe around it.
how can i try and convince my mom and her boyfriend to stop smoking? i already tried, and i told them how bad it is for you and everything, but they didnt' care. i WANT them to care. i hate this.
can someone give me advice on how to avoid this? or something? (link)
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Hey. I would try talking to your mom alone once more. Tell her how much you love her and that you really wouldn't want anything to happen to her because she's your world. Tell her how upset you would be. Tell her that you know it will be hard to quit but you're going to help her through it because you're her daughter and you love her. Also, tell her that you really want to help her boyfriend too and that you're willing to help him too. Say that you love visiting her but you worry about all of your health because second hand smoke really is just as bad for you. If you find it difficult to do this in person I would write her a letter telling her how much you love her and want her and her boyfriend to quit. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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