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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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okay so..im14/f and my boyufriend is 16. and over holiday break, his family went on vacation. they went on an 10 day cruise on the carribean. jealous? ya, me too. but while he was gone, new years happened. and i did something that i couldnt regret more. i hooked up with his best friend. but i couldnt really help it. we were at a house party. and it got crazy with liquor. and i drank. a lot. i was really wasted and out of it. but the point is, i have a very guilty conscience(?). i know that i wont feel okay untill i tell him. but how do you tell the person that you love with all of your heart that you cheated. how do you cheat on them in the first place. i feel dirty. hes the only person that i have ever been intimate with, and i know that i love him and he loves me back. its so hard to live with guilt. and i feel like a tramp. once again, how do i tell him. btw, hes incredibly strong and im sure he would hurt one of us. most likely the friend. what do i do to stop everything.

You are my age & getting drunk? tsk tsk, you deserved what you got then. I know you're not gonna wanna hear anything I'm about to say, but if you're going to start drinking & espically getting drunk..at 14. You deserve to get dumped by this kid. I mean the poor kid goes away for a little while, & you can't even behave. You should be ashamed, seriously. I don't know what time of family you have, that lets you drink at such a young age, but where I live, you're known as a major slut/loser. Thats another thing to be thinking about. Since its the new year, maybe you should have a couple resolutions.

Anyways, what you just wrote, about how you love your boyfriend & how you'd never do it again, just tell him that. & just say, how it was an accident & you were stupid. & say, you have every right to break up with me. but, i really don't want you too. because i obviously care alot about you, that i told you what i did, because i want us to be honest with eachother & i just really care about you.

& junk like that. if you're lucky he'll accept the apology. & relize everyone makes mistakes.

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(Rating: 4) yayaya. well...he slept with someone on the cruise. so w/e thanx
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