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Hello, all- I'm Becky. I'm 16 years old but wise far beyond my years, so hopefully you can expect some good advice from me. I'm not here to spit out cutesy answers to every single question- I won't be a bitch, but I'll be sure to tell it like it is. Just accept it, and consider less-than-sweet answers as tough love. :]

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ok so me and my boyfriend have tried having sex once before but it hurt really bad and a few other things happened and it just didn't work out completely. my question is, are there any way i can make it hurt less?
he fingers me right before and says im wet/relaxed enough but then as soon as he tried to put his penis in he couldnt, even though i felt i was relaxed too. also, the few times he did get in it hurt really really bad, i get that it's supposed to but are there any ways to make it hurt less?
thanks

You should use lubricant, like KY jelly (I don't have any personal experience with sex, but I have heard KY jelly is the best). Also, it probably hurt more this time because if it was your first time, then you broke your hymen, or "popped your cherry." It'll probably hurt less next time, as long as you use lubricant. Hope I helped =]

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