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17/f

ok. So I lost my viriginity today. We used a condom, and he's been tested so I know he's clean. When it happened it hurt a lot, but it's normal, right? I also didn't start bleeding until about an hour after it happened. It stopped, but my stomach still hurts.

So basically here's my question:
How long will it take until sex stops hurting?

I can def. see us doing it again in the future, maybe as soon as next week. Will it still hurt? I had fun anyway with the fooling around we did, but I'd like to enjoy it as much as he has, lol.

Thanks in advance!
-L

it depends on the girl, but it usually takes about 3-4 times to not feel at least some discomfort. personally i enjoyed it my first time, the pain went away really fast for me. as for the second time.. that was hell.. but i braved through it! haha i promise it WILL get better. it's normal for it to hurt; your hymen is breaking, and the whole bleeding thing is definitely normal too and might happen for the first few times.

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(Rating: 5) oh man thanks so much!
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