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i am a really nice person and i don't understand why so many people are mean to me...i mean i am really quiet and i don't bother nobody!
there is this person who is constantly putting me down and really hurting my feelings...i try not to let anybody know how bad he's hurting me....but it's really getting to me. you would think he would say it to my face instead of other people. i mean the stuff he is saying hurts me soo much....i'd rather be beaten physically than to have something killing me from the inside this much....
i really don't know what to do i just know i feel really bad about what's going on....espeacially when me and that particular person don't even know each other.....not to mention when he starts putting me down so does everyone else....
i know most people are going to say talk to him....but that's not an option...because if i talk to him i am probably going to get violent...because i am sick of this.
this is really really tearing me apart and i know you shouldn't let words bother you but after a while they began to really get to you and tear at you...what do i do? (link)
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The reason why people pick on other people is to feel better about themselves. You're absolutely right, violence would only make things worse. This guy doesn't deserve your attention. Actually, he might enjoy it! So do your best to ignore his provocations. Chances are, he will get bored eventually. Let this unfair treatment motivate you to be better than those people who are mean to you. And remember... be proud of being better than them! A little aloofness can come in handy (of course, only with the people who are rude to you! Be the same kind and sincere person with everyone else.)
What's more difficult to control is the way you feel when being treated this way. I understand you can't just tell yourself not to feel bad about it. One good thing you could do is talk to a teacher, counselor or some other adult whose opinion you appreciate. Another good thing is spending time with people you love and who really care about you. Always try to focus on all the positive things in your life. That should make those negative emotions weaker and, hopefully, they will be gone eventually.
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Rating: 5
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thanks....i can't tell no one about this though :(
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