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Whats up Ya'll, my name is Sara and what else can I say except the obviouse..Im here to help you! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Daniel for about 2 and 1/2 years now...and my GOODNESS have we been throught it ALL, anything you can think of, trust issues, love, hurt, fights, happiness, anniversary planning, trips, breaking up and making up...and not to mention he is my best friend and my partner in crime for LIFE!! So if you want a guys perspective, were the duo. I play the guitar, the flute and I love to sing, I even have a C.D. and I am a passionate painter. So yeah...Im always bored cuz I live in a little cow town for college right now, so Ill get to your questions FAST. No worries...Ive heard it all, and seen it all and my friends and I have been through everything too...so ya'll just FIRE AWAY!!!

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My boyfriends' ex girlfriend is back in town & she wants to hangout with him. I know I shouldn't be worried because I know he loves me. But the fact that his ex girlfriend of almost 2 years wants to hangout with him has me a bit worried. What if when he sees her, feelings come back? Or they start hanging out more often & feelings start up again? I have never felt this way about someone & I don't want to loose what we have. He asked me if I was okay with it & I said yes because I don't want to control who he hangs out with. But now that I have thought about it, I don't want him hanging out with her. What should I do and/or say to him? I'm just scared & need a little advice on this subject.

I would talk to him about how you feel now...It would bother the CRAP out of me too if Daniel hung out with his ex's. You say he loves you and Im sure he does, so he should have no problem respecting your wishes as his girlfriend. If he knows that it bothers you, and if he is a good guy, he shouldnt go. But if you are willing to compromise, say its okay for the two of them to hang out, as long as you are there too. Or make it a group thing. I hope I helped and i hope that things work out for you, let me know how I did and how it goes with you guys...and dont worry, if he loves and respects you like you say, he should be okay with whateve makes YOU comfertable....you not being controlling, your being..well, HUMAN.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. You gave me the best advice. It's good to know that I'm not the only one that wouldn't want her boyfriend hanging out with his ex. I'm going to talk to him about this. Thank you very much for the advice; great job. =D
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