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I really need to start taking my own advice.

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where thers this boy and we dated 4 times and i keep breaking up with him. I dnt know why but i do. Its just i want to like him. Hes good boyfreind. But i dont no if i dnt wnt a boy freind and thats y dnt want to date him again or i just dont likme him. Oh yea hes in love with me and i dnt know if i am in love with him...


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I used to have this problem alot.
I guess I did it to see if I would really miss
him if he was gone. Most of the time I did miss him and we got back together. I didn't learn my lesson until one boy who I truly liked refused to go back out with me after I broke us up.

Give him a fair chance if you're up to it.
Don't obsess over him, because that could make bored with him. Just keep things light for a bit. If after a few weeks you aren't feeling anything, then truly decide if you want him or not. A kiss could really help you in this situation. If theres sparks, its a yes. Obviously if its just a flat kiss, its a no.
Just be sure you're happy with your choice.
Don't feel like you have to go along with it to
make him feel better since he likes you so much.

A best friend can help you tremendously in this sitch. She could probably tell you whether she sees the chemistry, cause in some cases we imagine things are perfect cause thats how we want them to be, not how they are. Make a list of the pro's and con's and weigh them out. Just be sure to think this over, its not right to play with his heart and you know it.

Good Luck

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(Rating: 5) your completly right. I have kissed him but the spark was there a little thats why i wasent sure lol but thank you so much your a huge help! im going to you for love advice
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