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this boy i liike
where thers this boy and we dated 4 times and i keep breaking up with him. I dnt know why but i do. Its just i want to like him. Hes good boyfreind. But i dont no if i dnt wnt a boy freind and thats y dnt want to date him again or i just dont likme him. Oh yea hes in love with me and i dnt know if i am in love with him...
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If this is so rocky, then maybe you guys arent good for each other. If your questioning your love for him so much, maybe you reallydont love him that much. Its not fair to him that you keep on breaking up with him and then going back out with him, and its not fair to you. Theres other guys out there.No worries. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
-Brina
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I used to have this problem alot.
I guess I did it to see if I would really miss
him if he was gone. Most of the time I did miss him and we got back together. I didn't learn my lesson until one boy who I truly liked refused to go back out with me after I broke us up.
Give him a fair chance if you're up to it.
Don't obsess over him, because that could make bored with him. Just keep things light for a bit. If after a few weeks you aren't feeling anything, then truly decide if you want him or not. A kiss could really help you in this situation. If theres sparks, its a yes. Obviously if its just a flat kiss, its a no.
Just be sure you're happy with your choice.
Don't feel like you have to go along with it to
make him feel better since he likes you so much.
A best friend can help you tremendously in this sitch. She could probably tell you whether she sees the chemistry, cause in some cases we imagine things are perfect cause thats how we want them to be, not how they are. Make a list of the pro's and con's and weigh them out. Just be sure to think this over, its not right to play with his heart and you know it.
Good Luck <3
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Hmm, well there are many possible reasons for this. So we have to figure out why you are doing it so that we can figure out whether its a good thing or a bad thing.
You may find him safe. Like that safty net that you can always go back to. Like the back up boyfriend. Which isnt good. Because that means you are using him unfairly. It's great that you trust him, but if the only reason you go out with him is that you want to have that boyfriend, then its not good for him or you. And you should move on.
If you keep breaking up with him, because you think that you don't want a boyfriend, you probably don't. In that case you should probably break up with him.
If you find him safe and that makes you feel bored, then you probably are breaking up with him for that reason, and then yeah you probably should break up with him.
If you don't have those same feelings for him now then maybe you need to stay with him though, for alittle while, and see if you begin t fel them. If you are running away from him because him having those feelings for you scares you, then you should try and commit yourself.
Basically, running away (breaking up) from your problems is not a good thing, especially when you keep running back. You have to figure out the real reason you break up. It may be one of the above reasons, or it may be soemthing totally different. If you figure it out, and you need more advice, feel free to ask. Hope I helped alittle bit. Lots of love,
Angie91
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