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Whats up Ya'll, my name is Sara and what else can I say except the obviouse..Im here to help you! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Daniel for about 2 and 1/2 years now...and my GOODNESS have we been throught it ALL, anything you can think of, trust issues, love, hurt, fights, happiness, anniversary planning, trips, breaking up and making up...and not to mention he is my best friend and my partner in crime for LIFE!! So if you want a guys perspective, were the duo. I play the guitar, the flute and I love to sing, I even have a C.D. and I am a passionate painter. So yeah...Im always bored cuz I live in a little cow town for college right now, so Ill get to your questions FAST. No worries...Ive heard it all, and seen it all and my friends and I have been through everything too...so ya'll just FIRE AWAY!!!

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Okay so this is the deal, I dated this kid for like 6 months he was my first love and we were each others first (noo i dont mean sex ) just kissing and just loving each other. Whatever, that sounded DUMB so ANYWAAY. So whatever, he is this big shot in our school.. and I had always crushed on him. Okay.. well 65% of the girl population in my school hated me while we were dating, beacuse they all loved him and I couldnt take it anymoer and broke up with him(also my bestfriends had crushes on him and hated that we were dating) . It was really hard for both of us and it sucked. So its been about 6 months and I'm dating someone new ( who i loveee ) and he is dating the bestfriend of mine who wanted us to breakup in the first place.. We've talked and I miss him and he misses me but we're both happy right now. I just know we have unfinished buisness but i love my boyfriend and , dont want to breakup with him. SORRY THIS IS SO LONG !!!
Okay so what should I do ?
I was thinking I would just wait untill we're both single and maybe hook up again. MAybe not

HELP.

Hollister babe does have a point...but at the same time its only human to have feelings about someone else....As far as I can tell you though, you need to think over your relationship with your boyfriend now. If you love him sooo much, how would it make you feel if you know that you hurt him? If you guys love eachother then stay together...but when you say you are going to wait untill you are both single to hook back up, how can you be sure that you really love this guy that you are with now? Love is forever, and its scary to think that you are thinking that you will be ending things anyways, because that doesnt sound like TRUE love. I say that it is YOUR life..YOUR happiness...and you need to take care of yourself, if you think that you are going to fing love with one of them more then the other...no matter who that person is you should go for it. Nomatter what you do hun, people will ALWAYS get hurt. Dont listen to what the crowd says and take ALOT of care befor going into this...I see the biggest of all consequenses on the side where you leave your boyfriend now and go with this other dude...your bestfriend will be hurt and you could possibly loose out on a friendship and not to mention that your man now will be hurt. At the same time, I dont want you to be unhappy by sticking with someone and wondering "What would it have been like if..." Do what makes YOU happy....
Hope I helped, let me know

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(Rating: 5) THANK YOU !
I figured it was horrible, i really needed to hear it I've been thinking it over and I love my new boyfriends wayyyy too much to even think about anythign else. Thanks again
xox
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