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Okay well my bf is 17 and I am 14..
We were thinking about having sex but we had 2nd thoughts because of diseases and pregnancy.
I don't know if he doesn't have any diseases and I'm not sure if I do.
But he really wants to do a lot of sexual things.
He wants to have anal with me and I don't really want to because I hear from a lot of my friends that it hurts.
But this may seem weird but we sometimes have phone sex and masturbate to each other while talking on the phone..
When we're together we're always making out and trying new things together but we haven't gotten to sex.
I'm not sure if I should have anal or sex with him.

hmm. well, i had sex at 14 to my 17 year old boyfriend, after 6 months of dating. we dated for 2 years after that.. and had sex regularly. a lot of the time it felt like our relationship was solely based on sex, nothing else. like if we would hang out.. it would just be sex and then go watch tv or something and it's just an everyday thing. i wasn't comfortable with that, and i honestly wish that i would've waited, because then i wouldn't have had sex with different guys over the years. oh and anal.. does hurt like a bitch! and what the person before said, i know a girl that has literally shit on her partner during anal because she lost control of her bowels. if you DO decide to do it, i suggest taking a little trip to the bathroom before!!! haha. anyways, if you have to ask advicenators about your virginity, you probably shouldn't be having sex!! =] message me if you need anything else, i don't judge.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much for your advice..
It was pretty much the best!
Haha.
Thanks a lot and I'll definetely ask for you for advice again.



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