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I really need to start taking my own advice.

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For some reason I get SO MAD when a friend of mine gets pregnant. Like I had so many friends who ended up getting pregnant, but before that they always talked about being abstinent, and not anything like that and before I know it they're having babies.. I can't stand it at all. I do not know why it bothers me so much. I support them and help them out, but there's just something that angers me about them getting pregnant. Can someone please explain to me why or how I feel this way, and how I can get over this emotion?

You may have stronger morals and beliefs about sex and pregnancies then they do; this might anger you that they do not act the way you believe people should act. I know I've felt this way before on many various topics.

Its okay to be angry. To you its probably very disturbing that they're disrupting their lives with this mistake and that they did not care enough about themselves and take time to think about the possible outcomes. You just have to take time to realize that not everyone thinks in the same way as you do. This may be hard.

Try expressing your anger about this topic in some other form, writing perhaps.
It'll just take time to get over your anger.

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