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14/f Ok so there is this guy that i really like, and we are pretty close friends. The winter snowball dance is coming up, and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of how to ask him to go to it with me, even if we just went as friends. Or should i wait for him to ask me?

Compromise; wait a week.
Nothing yet? Step up, ask him.

While you two are talking slip in something like "Hey, are you going to the Snowball Dance coming up?" if he says 'no.' Then try "Well, would you like to go with me?" If you see him struggling with an answer you can slip in a "Just as friends if you want" move, that way its more casual and less threatening.

If you're more of the take-charge tip try this:
Ask him "Hey are you taking anyone to the Winter Snowball dance?" if he says 'no.' say "Now you are" then wink at him.

Or.

Leave him a little cut-out snow flake on his locker saying meet me at ______. Then you can ask him that way too.

Good Luck

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