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My favourite quote is 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.

Life really is a roller-coaster with it's ups and downs and varying speeds. Yet no matter how hard you try to stay on an even keel, something always comes along to kick you in the teeth and remind you just how fragile life is. We are all trying to live the best we know how and to get along together. So take time to appreciate those around you and tell them how much you love them occasionally. A smile and a kind word speaks volumes.



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I've been seeing this girl for a while now and things are getting serious. We've talked and I think soon we're going to have sex. But I have a problem. I'm really insecure about the size of my penis. I'm not stupid, I know size matters, but how much does it matter? I mean, is it possible to be good if you aren't average or bigger? (link)
Technique and the ability to turn on your girl with your hands and mouth are more important to her. The size of your penis is not a problem if you know how to turn her on. The female body and psyche respond more to external touching and teasing than to internal thrusting.

Lots of kisses, caresses, cuddles and sweet talk to begin with will help set the mood. Telling her she looks and smells good will also help. Turning on the mind as well as the body is the best way forward.

Please don't get too hung up on the size of your penis - most women really do not mind how big/small it is when they love the guy that comes with it.

Good luck.



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Thank you. I've heard certain things like what you've told me, but I dismissed the information because it came from guys. Hearing that from a female really put my mind at ease. Thanks again!




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