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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.
oh my gosh, its obvious, lol go with the guy who stuck up for you. he obviously cares alot for you. & that other guy seems like a real jerk. if my boyfriend ever called me a slut or anything, that'd be the end right there for that relationship. The other guy may care about you, but he has to much of a temper, & then.. break up with him, where a BUNCH of people are around.. & be like "Look, I like you & all.. but, I think you need to get some help with your temper or something" if he even like tries to even hit you, i'd tell your parents & get a restraining order on him. You don't need that type of kid in your life.. I know you don't wanna hear my little story, but I'm gonna tell you anyways. lol..
There was this guy, that I dated.. & he was all around a bad kid. He got kicked out of his school & everything. But he was just sooo cute, & he seemed nice, or to me he was. So, then he asked me out later on, he was a 'sexual' type of kid, & he'd always be like to me "You are soo hot, you should be a f'in model. i wanna bang you soo bad." & I you know thought he was KIDDING this one time when he said it & then anyways, to tie that part up, he came to my house in the middle of the night. YEAH. I sent him home. I haven't talked to him much since. He only hit me once, he usually took his anger out on his brothers.. yeah, when he broke up with me, he like messed his little brother up completely, & sent me a picture of his brother & said "yeah, you are lucky I didn't do that to you." So, basically.. I'd get away from that bad kid. Hes not worth your time, even if hes cute or something.. theres other cute boys in the world. [:
kayy bye.
(Rating: 5) Thanx