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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!


I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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Ok so heres my problem....
Im a 25 year old female living in Victoria, Australia. My dad left when i was a few mnths old and have never seen him. My mum abused me emotionally and physically all my life and my younger sibling was treated like royalty.I was called obsene names I was called worthless and stupid and other choice phrases.after fights mum would lock herself in her room when i was 5 and pretend she was dead. when i broke in she would still pretend that she was dead.....i'd scream at her til she got up and she would shake me and say "how would the family feel if they knew you killed your mother" i was abused physically and sexullay by my EX best friend and her friend. But lately i've been so miserable every day. nothing makes me happy and i've been cutting myself with a pair of scissors it doesn't evn hurt me. I pinch myself so i get bruises on my arms and legs....cuz i think i deserve it. It sounds stupid but i want someone to care about me and understand. but cant manage to get the words out. I don't want to be here anymore. How can i be happy again? what can i do?

I care. I know, most people cant even come close to what you've been through, but I care, I might not know you well, but I tend to be a very caring person. There is nothing wrong with you. Evidently, there is something wrong with your mother, which shouldnt even be called a mother considering how she treated you. Its great that your ex best friend isnt your friend anymore, you got out of that situation. Cutting is the sillyest thing to do. You dont deserve any of that, you shouldnt be punished for something that isnt your fault at all. You should deffinitly go to a clinic and tell them how you feel. Start a new hobby to keep your mind off of things. Instead of cutting yourself, get some rubberbands and put them on your wrist, and when you feel like hurting yourself, snap the rubberband instead. I know i'm 15, but if you need a friend, I'm here for you to email, or IM, anything I can do to make you feel better I'll do. You are not alone in this, and punishing yourself is not an answer. Hope i helped.


-Brina

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(Rating: 5) Wonderful advice, thanx heaps. now taking constructive steps.
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