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My name is **SARAH** and im 15 [[16 in 2 months]]. I have a boyfriend **JOHN** who is also 15 and going to be 16 in 2 months. Well JOHN and I have been going out for 5 months this Saturday. We get along so well and we talk about EVERYTHING. When we hang out we don't have to do stuff to have fun; we cuddle, talk about everything, watch movies, sit outside and watch the stars. Well the past few days we got ALOT closer. He is the first boy i went out with for longer the 1 week after my very first love and hardest break up of 2 years. Well; the other day we became alot more physical. I mean before that all we did was BARELY make out; but the other day. It was like we made out for 2 hours and he fingered me. I was the first girl he ever did anything with like that and he was the second guy who did it to me. [[my first love was obv. my first]]. Well; we both have talked and decided we don't want to ruin our relationship with being sexual all the time. He knows about my past and i told him i didn't want to have sex until i was WAYYY older and hopefully married. He tells me all the time he wants to marry me and that he loves me more then anything in the world and i believe him. Well, he also doesnt want to have sex until he is married. We have talked about this so many times; but i am afraid that one day i'm going to get to crazy and give in. I REALLY DONT want to. I already made this mistake before. Do any of you have advice for me? PLease don't tell me to talk to him about, we have. It doesnt have to be 1,000,000 dollar advice ANYTHING would help. Please help me and please don't criticize me.
**SARAH**
good job with the waiting until marraige thing. i wanted that until i was 14.. and then i had sex and i honestly think it was a dumb decision. sure i love sex; but it would still be much better if i had waited. try making up a safe word or something to say/do when things are getting to heavy.. and then you'll both back off. that way, nothing gets out of hand.. hormones don't control you.. etc. just set your limits FIRMLY and even if you do give in.. hopefully he's a good enough guy to say "no, you'll regret it".
(Rating: 5) yeah i lot my virginity when i was 14 also to a jerk who treated me like shit. that is why i dont want to have sex now until im married because i know true love waits. thank you :]