Very interesting question. To be honest, I doubt theres a right reason.

People want to find love because its nothing like you've ever experienced before. It makes you happy, it makes you feel good about yourself and when we feel good about ourselves it just makes everything easier. Of course, you should never try to look for love to higher your self-esteem. You should be able to make yourself happy first.

It's as if you have your family and your friends and they may be close to you, but it isn't nearly as close as coming home at night to the person who understands you and loves you.

There is no clear explaination as to why we feel the need to always want love, but we want it because its wonderful. It brings two people very close and it's only those two people. It's not like having a best friend, you know where friends always have other friends? Well it's not that way for having a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It's two people only being close to each other. Theres no third party or other people. It's like a big secret that two people keep together.

I think what you heard is right. No two people can fully understand each other. There will always be times when you don't understand and disagree. People don't exactly set out to find someone who fully understands us, we look for people who will treat us right and make us feel wanted.

I'll admit that this was really hard to explain, but let's face it, we really don't have a clue as to why we look so hard for love.

-TheTeenGirl

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