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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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Okay, well I'm not the most popular person in my grade, I'm average, not a nerd but not popular. And, there's this popular girl that always hangs out with me at the football games, and I don't know why. Her name is Mackenzie, and at school, she's usually making fun of the fact that I'm dating Dane, or she's completely ignoring me. I don't even want to be friends with a popular person, it could lead to me being popular and then I'd lose all of my real friends. Besides, I don't want to be someone I'm not. So does anyone know why she's all the sudden hanging out with me?

Well, in my school, i'm probably the most popularest girl in school. Atleast thats what everyone says, I never really knew I was all that popular, but then when people would be like.."Yeah, who do you guys think is popular?" & then they'd name me first. I never even paid attention to it before. So, maybe you don't realize it either, & you're popular too. Thats good that you wanna stay with your real friends, I don't think I could ever give my friends up, if they told me it'd make me popular if I ditched them or something. Now, this may sound mean, but I know this how my friends act & such..if none of her friends are at the football game, she could just be using you, or she could think your really cool, & just wants to get to know you! I bet its the second one, inless shes like mean & stuff. We make fun of this one girl, whos dating this weird kid too. But, its only because we're kidding. Thats just the way my group is, were just joking around. Maybe she is too. Just stay nice to her & see how it ends up. If you notice that shes only hanging around you because none of her friends are there or something,then be nice to her & all.. but don't like get super friendly.

I hope that helped. kbye (:

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(Rating: 5) Well, I guess I am pretty popular, I was trying to be modest. :) Well, there are like two popular groups, and Mackenzie is from a different one from mine. I didn't even notice I was popular until people said something like "Wow, you've changed a lot since last year!" and I would say "How so?" and they'd say "Well your like 50 times as popular!" and Id be like "Oh." yeah so that's kind of how i found out. But i know that hes not like using me so she has a friend, because she hung out with me along with all of her friends. And now, she hangs out with me at school, and my friends are all kewl with it, I asked them.

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