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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

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Alright so, I went to a halloween party friday night at my friend's house. Her mom is cool, and let the guys who came stay the night. (which was only like 4 guys that could because of their own parents) And we were like messing around, dancing, singing and all that fun stuff.. then we were watching movies. And this kid who i thought that was one of my guy friends, but like never thought of anything more was watching the movie Rachel. and you know the reclining part of the couches? like on each side? So she was on one of those, and then i was laying with my feet over her and then the kid i was telling you about earlier who i thought was just my friend came, and was like oohhh Sam scoot over. So i was like sure. so i scooted to the inside of the couch and he was on the outer part. and like i get scared easily.. so like when we watched the movie I'd jump, and grab his hand. and then like he put his arm around me at one point and then i was holding his other hand while i had my head on his chest while we watched the rest of the movie and stuff. And like i eventually fell asleep on him for like 20 minutes like that then woke up. and then like i dunno. i kind of felt something, and then like whenever somebody saw us when we were watching the movie they'd be like "awwww you two are so cute! Are you going outtt?" and then we'd just be like "nopeee." But like I don't know like if i have feelings for him, or if i just liked having somebody to hold me like he diddd. How would i know thattt? Like how do you know if you like like somebody.? Thanks!!

Oh and I'm almost 15, and i'm a girl =]

Well, it sounds kinda in the middle, I mean.. maybe if you never thought about him before more then a friend, now you finally are. I think if that happened to me & I did that.. I think I'd end up liking the guy. So, you probaly do. I can't really tell you if you do or don't, because only you know that. But, it sounds like it to me. Next time you talk to him, see how he acts & see if he likes you too (:

kseeya

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much! Cause i was actually thinking about your advice, and what i was thinking about all night last night. (Well, for a while anyway) And i think that I kind of do like him. Just because i feel so much like myself around him! And now i just have to figure out if he likes me backkk. Cause well like we didn't hang out on weekends much everrr.. just like school and stuff. And I'm not like sisters practically with the girl who's party i was attt.. do you know like a subtle way i could like ask her to see if he likes me back? thanks!

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