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I've been dating this guy for about five months now. I think we're perfect together & everytime I'm with him, he makes me the happiest girlfriend alive. He's like a part of my life & I really don't know what would happen if he weren't to be in my life anymore.
With that, we have this BIG disagreement.
He smokes weed, and I think it's REALLY gross. Ever since he met me, he has cut down, because he hangs out with me a lot, and he won't do it around me. He smoked weed for like three years before he met me, so it's not like he just recently started. I know weed isn't addicting, the only reason he likes it is because it's just nice to have every once in awhile.
I don't like weed because I just don't like how weird he acts when he's on it, it just scares me. He also says mean things about me, [I found his tape recorder & he ended up recording an entire conversation with his roommate talking about how unhappy he is with me!]
He said he's not willing to change & weed has been around a lot longer then me.
I'm lost, what should I do??
Thank you!
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[READ THIS!]
Are you kidding me? Who are you to judge me and whether I have been in love or not? You don't idiot. "Oh I can't live without him" do you know how third grade that is? You CAN live without him, and it doesn't matter what your life is like, whose died and if you are in some foster home, you get heart broken, and you go through the same pain that everyone else does.
It just so happens that I have been in a serious relationship, it went for 3 years and guess what? We broke up! And guess what else? I'm still alive! I'm still happy, and I know that I can live without him.
If you think that you can stop him from doing pot, you have fun with that, but let me tell you, the chances are too slim to try. It's not worth it. So before you go off and assume that I've never been with someone, make sure you know that. So lets compare, 3 years-5 months. Hmm, no way you'll never survive without this guy after 5 months...
Seriously, get over yourself.
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He didn't tell me until like a month into the relationship that he smoked weed, he didn't think it was "necessary," & at the time, I didn't think that it would be THAT bad, and I still thought that until I found the recording, that's when the whole thing occured. & NO, I couldn't live without him. He's the only person I have left, both of my parents are dead. You obviously haven't ever been in love to know what it feels like to have someone so important to you just leave.
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bio
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82432
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