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Q: Okay, so there is this guy who i have gone out with unofficially about four times (video games and movies at his house and cooked him dinner at my house and drank with him and his friends at their house) and on one date with him(movie). He is an ex-coworker. He is not my type and i am way cuter than him but i decided to give him a chance, i have been lonely lately. Well, yesterday we went out I gave him a blow job and he came after like two minutes :( and that was it. NO ME. OH, and a few days before i told him he can be my mr. right now (didn't tell him this but it is because he is not my type at all). Now I want more, i like him. He is like no other, but he won't answer my phone calls today. So initially i was trying to manipulate him i guess, now is he trying to get back at me? I don't want to play games anymore, how do I get his heart? Or after what I did do you think it is impossible? It is so not like me to do that so soon into things, but I did. And now what do I do? I need some guy opinions here, please....
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Well, I'm not a guy, but heres my thought on the matter:
Theres no reason why you shouldn't go out with this guy. You may not be attracted to him right now, but after a while if you actually start loving him, you will eventually love the imperfections and start to not care about them.
Why in the world did you give this guy oral sex? And why do we all need to know when he 'came'? We don't need to go into that much detail, about half of the teens that come on here are 13 to 16. Let's show a little maturity here.
I honestly think it was a bad decision to even go that far when you havn't even officially been out with him. Now you're freaking out because you want him and he hasn't returned your calls. I think you need to slow things down and the next time you get a hold of this guy, tell him straight up that you're interested, if anything, don't rush into a sexual encounter with him. Unless you are going for a relationship full of sex, then it's not a good idea to do that with him before you are even with him.
-TheTeenGirl
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Sorry for the PG13 language if it offended you
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bio
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82400
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