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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!

I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!

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I had quite a sexually active life when I was younger. I broke my virginity at 13 and went on humping anyone I could get my hands on.(Of course, I only have sexual relations with women of my liking. This is not shallow hal here.)
Anyways, the problem came about a few months ago when I finally settled down and got myself into a serious relationship. At first, the sex was its usual. Then, after a few months, I didn't want to do it anymore. I can't seem to get it up for her. I try to avoid sex and it's seems kinda depressing. But here's the thing. I can get it up for any other chick, not for her. -___-
In short, I dont want to break up with her, I just don't want to have sex with her.

Well, this could mean that she means a lot to you,than other girls do. So, in a way, its good that you two don't have sex because you should create a strong bond first. You can always change your ways of having sex if thats what you want. You dont need to break up with her because of the whole sex thing. Try to overcome it. Let her know how you feel about the situation. Hope I helped. Good luck, with um, your area. haha.

-Brina

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(Rating: 3) You see the problem is- I already had sex with her. I just don't want to anymore.

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