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Q: Alrite i posted a Question on here about my dad critizing me all the time.
Today i came home from work and someone came into my room and messed with my computer. So i went out there and said "who was in my room" And he goes "no one". Well obviously someone was in my room because my computer and my light was on and my door was wide open. And he told me to shut hell up and leave his house. And i told him to shut up and he says "stupid bitch this house was quiet before you came home". then i went in my room and he was out there talking to my mom saying "she has no reason to come home complaining and accusing people of being in her room because first off its not her room, i just let her put her stuff in it."
Im so sick of his crap and hes just waiting till in turn 18 so he can kick me out. My mom will not allow him to kick me out because im still in school and i dont have money. yes i have a job but i also i have to buy all my clothes and everything i need for school and i had to buy a computer and everything to go with it.
Im almost 18 and i have zero privacy in this damn house. Alot of you guys said its because hes considered. But im telling you hes a complete asshole.
How do i get him to shut up and quit treating and talking to me like im a piece of dirt. Im so tired of it. its getting to the point that the next he tells me to leave im going to walk out the freakn door.
Oh and i dont i have family any where near me so i cant move in with them..
thanks alot.
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The bad news is that you won't be able to stop your dad from being a complete jerk to you. It's his house and therefore he can talk to you anyway he wants to. It's definetly unfair and wrong, but it's true.
The good news is that since you're almost 18, you will be able to get out when you want to. You may not be able to get a place of you own, but there has to be someone who you can go to to get away from your house. Plus, if your dad wanted to kick you out so bad, he might be happy to give you the money, or your mom might. Who knows, but there has to be a way that you can get out. And, you stated that there's no way to go stay with someone else, but theres not much else that people can tell you.
As for now, the best that you can do is try your hardest to stay out of your house. Go to a friends house that day, go for a walk and call someone, go outside and write in a journal, whatever you enjoy doing. I'm not trying to say that living in your house and being with your dad is easy because it absolutely isn't and I wouldn't know that. You're right, he's not just some concerned dad, he's a jerk who doesn't know how to parent at all.
-TheTeenGirl
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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.
I haven't given advice here in so long and it's only because I got caught up in life. But I'm more mature than I ever thought I could be.
So anyway I'm here again. It's been a long time, but I still love giving advice and still plan on it in the future.
Everyone should feel free to Private Message me for advice, I can be harsh, but I'm always trying to help someone by giving them the truth they need.
About My Ratings:
I enjoy ratings. And if I ask a question on here, I always rate the person. If you work hard to give advice, you deserve to be rated.
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 1364 Last Update: December 8, 2007 Visitors: 82333
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