DefinedEyes's advice column

This is a question for all you girls who know "the rules" to how to get THE guy.
To all you who know how to flirt, play hard to get, and keep the dude exactly where you want him.

Here it goes..

This guy and I live in different countries.
We've met twice (through friends and relatives)
We've been e-mailing for a while. Flirting somewhat.
I've been told this is where you start paying hard to get! after getting his attention!

So.. I havn't replaied to his last e-mail (sent two weeks ago)

so where do i go from here?

I can't just keep playing hard to get, cause then we'll lose touch.

So when do i make my move? and what is my move?
juts out of the blue sending him an email non-related to the last one?

or what?

thhxx!
ps. 15/fm

There arent "rules" to getting a guy.
Playing hard to get, in emails, or online, isnt a good idea, its stupid.
No offence, dont get tall angry at me for saying thats stupid. But if you like a guy and he likes you back, dont make him chase you around, a lot of guys say that hate that.

Playing "hard to get" isnt great anyways, it shows either he thinks you are just being rude, or lazy, or just not interested in him. So unless they guy you are intersted in REALLY likes you, he may not get that you are trying to play hard to get.

Just reply to his emails,
set up times to meet up or something,
and since you are only fifteen,
I'm assuming this boy you like is around the same age, and he is most likely imature, and of course trying to play hard to get with someone that age, will have no idea what you are doing?

You know?

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(Rating: 5) yeah i get it, but i've been told "they can't realize what they've got until its gone" so i feel like i should "disppear" for a while so he can realize what he's got.. and hopefully miss me, and the reaapear into his life! not a ood plan? lol.

thxx anyways :) ♥

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