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I am like nearly bestfriends with this girl at my school. We hang out at school, and on occasion at her house or mine. But when she is with a huge group of friends I feel left out. Like she is busy talking to her other friends and does not pay attention to me, and her friends that she hangs out with always look at me all weird like I don't belong with the group. And ever since school started she barely talks to me because she is busy with her other friends. Although I do walk up to her and say hi but since she is always with other friends she doesn't talk much to me.
How can I get more attention from her, and get our old friendship back?
Although I would like to be closer friends with her, and hang out more without her losing her other friends. I totally respect her other friends. Also, sometimes I prefer just hanging out with her alone, so how can I get that to happen? She is never available because she is busy hanging out with other friends and I would like to hang out with her as well.
I apoligize for asking so many questions, but please answer as many as you can, and just give polite suggestions and tips, please.
Thank you for your time into reading this.
She is being a friend.
Its normal, for relationships,friendships, to drift apart, but if you still wish to be friends, you will make it work. If you want to still be friends with her, I would go tell her, and try to talk to her. Make effort, let her know your friendship means something.
You shouldnt have to try to get attention from her either, friends dont need to try.
Try making friends with her friends, of course it will be awkward at first, but if you are friends with them too, it will be easier for you all to hang out together yaknow?
(Rating: 3) thanks but she isn't really trying to hang out with me or anything, and she is usually kind of ignoring me and spending more time with her other friends, and also her friends don't like me that much. But yes, I shouldn't have to try but I have to sometimes. Thanks for the advice.