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Q: There's the guy I like and he talks to me a lot. But there's also another girl at another school that he talks to alot. I'm not trying to sound rude, but she really isn't that attractive, cute at the most. I just don't understand why he talks to her so much, and it makes me jealous. She has the personality of a plank of wood. It gets me jealous because I'm just so outgoing & more attractive, honestly, but he still calls and talks to this girl too. What can I do to get over these issues? I cannot talk to him about it, I'm much too stubborn, so please don't suggest it.
You're just upset about the fact that he's talking a girl whose not the most attractive. There are some guys out there that won't go for the most attractive girl in the room. And just out of curiousity, do you really know her enough to say that she has the personality of a plank of wood?

I doubt it. It's pretty shallow minded to think the way you are thinking. I know it's probably not as bad as it sounds in your question, but you should get over it by just accepting the fact that he talks to certain girls because they are friends. Not physical appearances. And when you get older, looks will only get you so far. I know you're aware of this, but just continue to talk to him and be his friend. If he decides that he likes her, then deal. It happens. There will be times when you'll have a crush and he won't like you in that way.



-TheTeenGirl

Actually I know the girl very well, we were best friends last year, so thanks anyway.

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My name is Erin and I am now 18 years old. You may realize through out looking at my column, some of you love me and some of you flat out hate me. There's really no gray area with me I guess you can say.

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