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Jealousy.
There's the guy I like and he talks to me a lot. But there's also another girl at another school that he talks to alot. I'm not trying to sound rude, but she really isn't that attractive, cute at the most. I just don't understand why he talks to her so much, and it makes me jealous. She has the personality of a plank of wood. It gets me jealous because I'm just so outgoing & more attractive, honestly, but he still calls and talks to this girl too. What can I do to get over these issues? I cannot talk to him about it, I'm much too stubborn, so please don't suggest it.
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Well, with some guys, guys aren't all about the looks. Some guys aren't that shallow. They don't need a girl to be smoking hot for them to like her, it might be their personality who wins them over. Have you ever really talked to her? Because I'm sure if he's talking to her alot, she doesn't have a personality of a "plank of wood".
But just because he's talking to her doesn't mean he likes her, you need to think about that. He just might be real good friends with her, or she might even be just his best friend. So whenever you start to feel yourself get jealous, just think,"It doesn't mean anything, it doesn't mean anything." And just take breaths and try to calm yourself. A better thing to do, is whenever you see them talk, try joining the conversation and get to know her, so maybe once you see what their friendship/relationship is really like, you won't be as jealous. Because looking at something from a distance can make things look worse then they appear.
And just start talking more to him. Sooner or later, maybe he'll start calling you alot more and talking to you alot more too.
But if he does like her, or winds up liking her, you're just going to have to learn how to deal with it. Guys come, and guys go. I mean sometimes a guy will like you, and you won't always feel the same way. You just got to learn how to live with it and move on.
But at least remain good friends with him, no matter what happens.
I hope I helped.
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You're just upset about the fact that he's talking a girl whose not the most attractive. There are some guys out there that won't go for the most attractive girl in the room. And just out of curiousity, do you really know her enough to say that she has the personality of a plank of wood?
I doubt it. It's pretty shallow minded to think the way you are thinking. I know it's probably not as bad as it sounds in your question, but you should get over it by just accepting the fact that he talks to certain girls because they are friends. Not physical appearances. And when you get older, looks will only get you so far. I know you're aware of this, but just continue to talk to him and be his friend. If he decides that he likes her, then deal. It happens. There will be times when you'll have a crush and he won't like you in that way.
-TheTeenGirl
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