Hey there, I got your feedback and I'd be glad to help you the best I can.

I'm not sure what it is your boyfriend would do in order for him to take you back, but if you already havn't, explain to him every detail of what happened the night you were drunk.

Explain to him that guys were coming onto you, so you had to use a friend of yours as a fake boyfriend to keep them off of you. And the only thing that happened was you held his hand to make it look realistic.

Now, the mistake on your part was him having to find out from someone else. Why didn't you come forward the next time you saw him? He would have felt much better hearing all of that from you and not someone else because then how does he know there was more that happened and he might not hear it from anyone?

So what you should have done so far is tell the truth and truly apologize to him for messing up.

And lets talk about the issue of him maybe going to jail. Listen, I know you think that waiting would be a true love thing to do, but it isn't. I think you really need to take some time for yourself and seriously get help on your self-esteem. This may hurt you or offend you and I am definetly not trying to at all, but you really don't like yourself and that's whats really the issue. Low self-esteem is the root to just about everyone of your problems.

Let me give you my very most honest opinion: You shouldn't have a boyfriend right now. Especially this guy. You're at a point in life where you're having suicidal problems and you hate yourself. That's no way to live. If you are still having an issue with it, get help first. It's not normal to be this hard on yourself with guys and dating and being without him. If you think you'll harm yourself, then you shouldn't be with someone. I know you probably won't take my advice, but I hope you take my word for it that you're not ready for these things until you start loving yourself.


-TheTeenGirl

well, my bf and i talked he told me he was done with me then he came to my house the next day. he had flowers and appologized for not listening to waht happened exactly. we got back together adn he talked to my parents and asked if he can marry me. after high school. he helps me a lot with my thoughts and my self esteem. im seeing a counselor now. adn he isnt going to jail. he will for sure pass it. he assured me. and the reason i couldnt tell him right away before anyone else is because i went to juvi that night for a fight i got into. and ya. but thank you and everything is good and im so happy with him and myself. i realize im a nice looking person on the inside and out. ive been thinking a lot. and he tells me all the time im gorgeous and beautiful adn sexy adn everything. so thank you again sweetie

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