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Hello. My name is Ashley. I am 17 years old with 2 sisters and 3 half sisters.. I love giving advice. All my friends come to me with their problems. I'm almost ALWAYS right when it comes to advice. Unfortunately, that does not include myself. If I have a problem, I'm usually clueless so I may have a few questions here and there but mostly I'm here for the readers. Hopefully someday I can be an advice columnist for a newpaper.

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So far my life has been really complicated, sure, I do have a great life, an amazing fiance, a wonderful chihuahua, yes she is my baby, and a pretty good family I suppose. In reality, I guess most everyone has a complicated life. In my life, I have been in the most depressed state to where I literally wanted to kill myself, but it never came down to it, it is all a test, not for anyone else but for ourselves, to see how strong we are, we all have hardships in our lives but we have to look at the good and remember that there ARE people who care about us, no matter how down we are. All of you can live a good, happy life, you just have to try and give it your all and remember you bring your own happiness.

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I have lost only one person in my life.. My brother, he was only my half brother, and I never knew him. He died at 47, he had 3 amazing sons who had a great life going for them and a beautiful wife. He killed himself on October 21 of 2004. I regret every single day that I didn't know him, nor did I try, I blame myself even though I shouldn't, that route goes both ways. Sure I could have tried to see him, but he could have to. The thing is, you should try with everything in you to know your family and to love them. I would give up a lot to see my brother for one minute to ask him why? Would didn't he think about anyone else but himself? And now I'll never get that chance. I went against God and all my beliefs and even tried to contact him through a Ouija. God forgave me but I didn't forgive myself. I just hope with all my heart that he forgave my brother as well.
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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.

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I've been in a similar situation. I dated a guy named Robert and we went out for about 2 monthes but he was a player and I couldn't trust him or anything. He begs for me to come back to him but I have a boyfriend now who means everything to me and thats all I can ask for. What I'm trying to say is that Lane is just using you.
More than likely he cheated on you throughout the relationship. I definitely advise you to just move on. It's hard to but you can. In fact, that reminds me.. Well, it's probably best if I tell the whole story so you can understand.
Well, Robert went out with my friend Christina, but only for a while. I gave Robert my number because I liked him and I couldn't resist even though I knew it was wrong. Well, we talked a lot that night and he told me he loved me, yeah right! Well, he dumped Christina about a week later for me and of course, I said yes.
After a while, his cousin, who was one of my good friends who had also liked me but was now dating my sister, told me that Robert was cheating. I didn't believe him of course but I was suspicious because he had a bad past. Well, I was with my friend Brooke, and Robert was with Brooke's boyfriend Preston and they were walking ahead of us at a strip mall and the next thing I know I see them checking out these girls and yelling at them. I yelled at Robert and said that it was over.
But of course, after a while he wanted me back and I said yes. We broke up and went back out constantly, it was a neverending thing and I couldn't take it. Well, I told him to never call me again b/c I was dating some other guy and this guy called him and cussed him out because Robert is pretty big and said he was gonna kick his "hiney" but by boyfriend was pretty big too so it would have been pretty interesting to watch but whatever, now I have nothing to do with either of them.
In other words, forget about Lane. Believe me, he's just dragging you along and is all for the make-outs and w/e else he can get out of it. Good luck and I hope I helped. Sorry it was so long.

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(Rating: 3) yeahh well thanks for the help, but i know for a fact that lane didnt cheat on me. but thanks again a bunchh
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